19Jan 2016 by CJ

Mistakes should never define your true value

Life & Living, Youth
“Have patience with all things, but first with yourself. Never confuse your mistakes with your value as a human being.” – St. Francis De Sales No one is perfect I’m not afraid to admit, with great certainty, that I’m not perfect. While striving for perfection in our careers, our relationships and our talents is noble, it’s an unattainable reality, which has driven countless individuals mad throughout history and destroyed its share of happy homes. Looking back on my life, I’ve made a great deal of mistakes I’m not particularly proud of. I’ve unintentionally hurt people who once meant a great deal to me, allowed pride to cloud my better judgement and fell victim to jealous tendencies, which often extinguish blossoming relationships. Sadly, it’s the mistakes we inevitably remember and come…
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18Jan 2016 by CJ

Bullying is rough – but you have a right to be here

Youth
“Be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the tress and the stars; you have a right to be here.” – Max Ehrmann When I started high school, it was the year 1989. Back then the average price of a new house was $120,000… One gallon of gas was 97 cents… A BMW 325 would set you back $21,400… And mailing a letter only cost you a quarter. One thing you heard very little about in 1989 was a term now widely used amongst teens and young adults – bullying. Bullying is nothing more than using superior strength or influence in order to intimidate someone. And while such behavior has gone on for generations, it’s only recently been given a name and the attention…
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17Jan 2016 by CJ

Life’s scars – don’t let them define you

Life & Living, Youth
“To be alive at all is to have scars.” - John Steinbeck When we’re young - hosting pretend tea parties for your family or putting on plays with the neighborhood kids as a cast – we rarely contemplate the future or the realities that eventually plague our lives. We’re too busy enjoying life and the innocence and freedom which often comes along with being a child. There are times I truly miss those days. I can still feel the rush of a warm breeze upon my face as I sped down the hilltop of my block atop my Huffy bicycle. I could do that over and over again and never get bored. I remember spending hours in my backyard with my toy tractors and dump trucks – digging holes and…
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13Jan 2016 by CJ

Set goals – but don’t forget about people

Information & Education, Youth
“It’s good to have an end to journey toward; but it’s the journey that matters in the end.” – Ursula K. Le Guin Humanity spends a great deal of time with their sights set on goals. It drives our decisions, motivation and seemingly begins to take on a life of its own. But as we go about our days, striving and pining for the goals we assign a great deal of importance to, far too often we overlook the journey and the realities going on right before our eyes. Many times those “realities” come in the form of people. Perhaps it’s a spouse who supports their mates career aspirations without fail or question – standing on the sidelines hoping their efforts and sacrifices will be noticed and appreciated. Maybe it’s…
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05Jan 2016 by CJ

Perseverance is not just for kids

Life & Living, Youth
"What saves a man is to take a step. Then another step. It is always the same step, but you have to take it." - Antoine De Saint-Exupery I remember when my nephew was just learning to walk, he had his share of tumbles. It seemed every time he got to his feet and took a few steps, it wasn't long before he'd fall on his behind frustrated. What I remember most about that time is not how frequently my young nephew fell, but how many times he continually picked himself back up - almost unaffected by his recurring tumbles and his inability to master the art of walking. If there's one thing you can say about children it's how resilient they are. Regardless of their growing pains (learning to…
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