Respect Your Fellow Human Being – A Lesson American’s Still Haven’t Learned

Respect Your Fellow Human Being – A Lesson American’s Still Haven’t Learned

Generosity & Kindness, Life & Living
American politician and former professional basketball player Bill Bradley once remarked, "Respect your fellow human being." I've been thinking a lot about those five little words lately - respect your fellow human being. I turned 47 this year - spending almost five decades living, learning, loving, losing, and hoping that with each passing year, I might find myself living in a world where compassion, empathy, respect, and equality become the moral compass by which all of society acts in accordance with. But I have to remind myself (continuously) that America's existence continues to be plagued with hate, division, and self-serving agendas evidently found in government, communities, and organizations across the country. What's perhaps most frustrating is that those in positions of power, the so-called leaders who are supposed to set…
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The Happiest Man on Earth Teaches Us About Political Hatred

The Happiest Man on Earth Teaches Us About Political Hatred

Generosity & Kindness, Information & Education
I recently read a memoir by an author whose name is probably unfamiliar to you, as it was to me. The memoir's title is The Happiest Man on Earth, written by Eddie Jaku and published when he turned 100 years old. However, you won't conclude from the title of this book that Eddie Jaku was a survivor of the Holocaust. Before turning to the very first page, I found myself questioning the incredible contrast between the title and the realities so many of us have read about the Holocaust. How could Eddie have spent seven years experiencing unimaginable terrors and incredible loss and then recanting those tales in a book entitled The Happiest Man on Earth? The book is heartbreaking at times, painting a clear picture of the torture and suffering Eddie…
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It’s about what you’ve given back that matters during the holiday season

It’s about what you’ve given back that matters during the holiday season

Generosity & Kindness
“At the end, it’s not about what you have or even what you’ve accomplished. It’s about who you’ve lifted up, who you’ve made better. It’s about what you’ve given back.” - Denzel Washington My wife and I decided to forgo exchanging presents with each other this Christmas. Now I realize for some of you reading this, the notion of not having a gift to open on Christmas morning is a desecration of the holiday itself. But what if, instead of lavishing each other with gifts we may or may not want or need, we did as Mr. Washington states – it’s about what you’ve given back. In our home, a lesson learned from the pandemic has been the realization that we are incredibly fortunate and unquestionably blessed. We’ve come to…
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Mental struggles do not need to define who you are

Mental struggles do not need to define who you are

Generosity & Kindness
Did you ever look at another person closely and wonder what’s hiding behind their smile? Are they creating a fictitious persona whose purpose is simply to conceal their mental struggles? Does seeing that smile – the universal expression for joy, pleasure, excitement, satisfaction, and many others – cause you to perhaps inaccurately deduce that this person is void of life’s challenges and un-wanting of a kind word or a dose of unsolicited compassion? In a way, we’re all nothing more than actors in a play. Settings and circumstances vary from one scene to another, and therefore we must conform to specific roles we’re expected to portray either by society, co-workers, spouses, friends, or even ourselves. Frequently the motivation for such scenes is simple - smile, smile, smile! Never let the…
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Down in the dumps? Next time try doing this to feel better

Down in the dumps? Next time try doing this to feel better

Generosity & Kindness, Life & Living
"It's OK to be down in the dumps - just don't stay there too long." - Catherine DeVrye, Author. From time to time, we all find ourselves down in the dumps, or put another way, discouraged, depressed, or just plain sad. Some of us are more prone to such occurrences (you can't see me, but I'm raising my hand), which makes every-day day life challenging and difficult to navigate our way through. Sometimes, there are pre-indicators and warning signs that we may soon feel down in the dumps, such as holidays and birthdays or after having difficult and confrontational conversations with co-workers or loved ones.   But other times, such feelings emerge out of nowhere – catching us off guard and forcing us to try and deal with the circumstances when…
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