Category: Generosity & Kindness

“The sign of a good leader is easy to recognize, though it is hardly ever seen. For the greatest leaders are those who share as equals in the trials and struggles, the demands and expectations, the hills and trenches, the laws and punishments placed upon the backs of those governed. A great leader is motivated not by power but by compassion.” Richelle E. Goodrich, Making Wishes: Quotes, Thoughts, & a Little Poetry for Every Day of the Year If you were to ask what the sign of a good leader is in mixed company, respondents would inevitably draw upon their employment experiences and the many managers and supervisors they've interacted with throughout their careers. This would be a perfectly natural response, as we often equate leadership with those possessing managerial or…

“Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength.” - Eric Hoffer Many years ago, a co-worker shared her work philosophy that, at the time, seemed rather self-centered. "Don't make your problems my problems." As someone who tries to be a good listener, personally and professionally, her statement seemed unfeeling and a clear admission that she did not possess the emotional capacity (nor the interest) to be burdened by someone else's issues. Fast forward some 20 years, and while my relationship with that co-worker has since ceased, I am still reminded of her philosophy from time to time, though admittedly, my understanding of it has changed. While I initially perceived her statement to be self-centered, lately, I find myself acknowledging how those who are unhappy with their lives will treat others…

Between all the negative headlines in our communities and political forums exist stories no one is talking about, even those impacted by their realities. Stories of loneliness and alienation; private battles often masterfully concealed by ordinary people unsure how to ask others for help.  The story I’m about to share is one of those stories; a reminder that this journey through life should never be solely about self-gratification and a lack of true compassion but rather a mission to provide genuine kindness and acknowledgment to others, especially when no one is asking. Let me explain. Recently, a thirty-year-old man set out on what appeared to be nothing more than an ordinary stroll across the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco, California. A popular attraction and destination during the afternoon hours,…