By now, I'm sure you're all aware of our nation's latest school shooting, which occurred at a private Christian school in Nashville, Tennessee, earlier this week. Many of us are angry, horrified, and deeply troubled that the lives of those so young were tragically robbed of their future (and let's not forget those adults whose lives were abruptly cut short as well). These are feelings we've all experience far too often over the years as gun violence has normalized throughout America. I want to focus on and further discuss the realities of how gun violence has normalized and why this most recent shooting in Nashville will be forgotten sooner than it should be until the next school shooting comes along. Dictionary.com defines "to normalize" as "causing something previously considered abnormal…
Did you ever wonder what it means to work with insecure leaders? Let's first start off with a quote from internationally known thought leader Britt Andreatta who writes, "Exclusion lights up the same regions of the brain as physical pain." I read Andreatta's words repeatedly, eventually going from confusion to frustration after realizing her meaning and its applicability to my life. After all the years of managers and supervisors telling me that exclusion is not personal it's just business, one short sentence forever vindicates me of my inner feelings towards the subject. In other words, if I'm wondering why exclusion sometimes feels so unbearable in the workplace, that's because science reveals that our brains associate that feeling with physical pain - which we all know can impair us and be…
Lately, I've been determined to limit my daily news intake to maintain some level of sanity while witnessing what often feels like a bad reality show playing out in our governmental institutions. So many of today's political leaders are an embarrassment to our country and themselves – diminishing the credibility and respectability of our nation across the global arena. While I'm not a certified mental health care provider, one doesn't need such a certification to diagnose these politicians as suffering from narcissistic personality disorder. Let me first say that I'm neither a Republican nor a Democrat. In truth, I cast my vote based not only on proposed policies and philosophies but more on the integrity and morality of a politician. Today, more than at any other time in our nation's…
American writer Laura Ingalls Wilder once remarked, "I believe we would be happier to have a personal revolution in our individual lives and go back to simpler living and more direct thinking. It is the simple things of life that make living worthwhile, the sweet fundamental things such as love and duty, work and rest, and living close to nature." For me, simpler living is a way of life I witnessed, cultivated, and adopted through the invaluable and countless occasions I happily shared with my grandparents. I can evoke memories of sitting around my grandparent's kitchen table, pouring cups of freshly brewed tea from an ivory ceramic pot while munching on cookies or other sweet treats my grandmother placed on a coordinating dinner plate. We'd communicate stories about our days,…
"We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give." – Winston Churchill. Around this time of year, my wife and I often remind each other how fortunate we are, from the most simplistic circumstances to the favorable conditions that provide us with comfort, security, affection, nourishment, and calm. It's worth noting that our lives are not devoid of unexpected challenges, personal distresses, and at times, loneliness for those cherished individuals who are no longer part of this earthly life. Unfortunately, the holidays tend to amplify that loneliness as we all yearn for the celebratory occasions of holidays past. But every year, just as I'm about to become consumed by crippling thoughts of where my personal and professional lives are deficient, I'm given the…