My Post on Having Time

Love & Relationships
I am honored to be featured on Having Time (CLICK HERE). It's a wonderful community filled with simple, every day inspiration we all can use during the chaos of our daily lives. I hope you enjoy my post, and thank you to the editors of Having Time for allowing the opportunity to connect with their readers.  
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A Handbags Purpose is Not Dictated by Cost

Life & Living
I wrote this article back in 2007, when I was writing a regular editorial column for The Leader Newspapers in New Jersey. I stumbled upon it recently and was so amused by the concept that I thought I’d share it with all of you. It remains unchanged from its original publishing. Jennifer and I each got a good laugh out of it again – I hope you all do as well. _________________________________________________________________ My good friend Jennifer has an unhealthy obsession. No, it’s not with food or cigarettes or even alcohol. It's with pocketbooks. Yes, you heard me correctly – pocketbooks; over 20 different varieties to be exact. As most men will attest to, it’s hard to understand the complicated world of women’s handbags. After all, I have but one wallet…
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Memories – the things you never want to lose

Life & Living, Love & Relationships, Youth
Many of you might remember the television dramedy The Wonder Years which ran on ABC from 1988 through 1993. Set in the year 1968, the series followed young Kevin Arnold as he made his way through pubescent life - dealing with typical societal issues of that time. The show was narrated by a much older and wiser Kevin, often describing what is happening and ultimately what he learned during any given situation. On the series finale of the show, as a group of young children can be heard playing in the background, the final narration is given: “Growing up happens in a heartbeat. One day you're in diapers, the next day you're gone. But the memories of childhood stay with you for the long haul. I remember a place, a…
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Battling illness should not be a prison sentence

Life & Living
The other day I witnessed first-hand a wonderful site. There, amongst a crowded retail store, was a woman pushing a shopping cart. At first glance, the 60 something year old appeared to be like any other woman her age, though certainly walking more with the pace of a turtle than a rabbit. But soon it became evident that this woman was not like her counterparts – suffering from the debilitations of Alzheimer’s disease. And yet there she was, proudly pushing her shopping cart accompanied by her daughter – who obviously did not allow her disease to devalue their relationship. But perhaps what struck me most was what happened next. A geriatric nurse, who happened to be shopping in the same retail store, also took notice of the site I was…
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Disappointments can be caused by high expectations

Life & Living
“Hope is itself a species of happiness, and, perhaps, the chief happiness which this world affords: but, like all other pleasures immoderately enjoyed, the excesses of hope must be expiated by pain; and expectations improperly indulged must end in disappointment.” Samuel Johnson I’m a dreamer – I readily admit that. My mind is always filled with some grandiose idea or ambition, which rarely (if ever) plays out the way it does in my head. Some might call that an overactive imagination – at this stage in the game I call it the perfect scenario for disappointments. Johnson’s statement above sums it up perfectly: “expectations improperly indulged must end in disappointment”. My expectations of life, people and experiences have always been extremely high. The caveat to that logic is when the…
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