Craig Ruvere

10Oct 2019 by CJ

Where you sleep is something you should never take for granted

Life & Living

Have you ever paused from the daily chaos of life to think about where you sleep? I know that sounds strange but stay with me for a minute here. This week, I’ve been battling a head cold – you know, the kind that makes your sinuses feel like they’re on fire and everything you eat just tastes bad. Sleeping? Well, that’s a fun task. You raise you head up so high with a series of pillows that you might as well be sitting up. And forget about finding a comfortable position as you flip from one side to the other savoring your one clear nostril and hoping the other miraculously clears up. Something else happens when I’m sick like this – my snoring becomes unbearable. Knowing that my beautiful wife…

02Oct 2019 by CJ

Priorities say a lot about the person you are

Love & Relationships

“No one is too busy in this world. We all have the same 24 hours. It’s all about priorities.” – Anonymous I discovered this quote while scrolling through Facebook – posted by a family member I haven’t seen or spoken to in many, many years. As someone who always appreciates an insightful quote, no matter how simplistic in its implementation, I agree with this author’s sentiment about setting priorities in life. I myself even blogged about the subject a few years ago in a post entitled, Thanksgiving to-do-lists – who’s important on yours? But as I get older, I struggle with the ability to understand how often we fail to practice what we consistently preach out in the world – particularly on social media. For over 35 years, I was…

15Sep 2019 by CJ

Action figure teaches a lesson to kids – and adults – about materialism

Youth

Growing up, I was obsessed with Transformers and GoBots, which were cartoons featuring transforming robots with accompanying action figures available with the same functionality. Each action figure retailed for around $2 back in the early 1980s (about $6.23 today). But then I discovered Voltron – a cartoon in which five robotic lions transformed into one giant robot to help save the planet. For a little kid, it was pretty exciting stuff! When I learned that Voltron had been made into an action figure (compliments of the Sears Christmas catalog known as the “Wish Book”) I couldn’t wait to add it to the top of my Christmas list that season. The problem? The Voltron action figure was not cheap for the early 1980s - retailing for somewhere around $150. To put…

10Sep 2019 by CJ

Music fades away in a relationship between soul mates

Life & Living, Love & Relationships

I wrote the lyrics to The Music Fades Away on September 14, 2001 – three days after the 9/11 attacks. Having lived in the New York Metro Area at the time – having seen the buildings under siege first hand – was an insane reality for me. To be that close to one of the worst terrorist attacks on our country was truly incomprehensible. When all was said and done, thousands of lives had been lost. Thousands of husbands and wives would not be coming home to their loved ones – a thought which hit me hard having just been married myself in May of that year. As a writer, it’s always interesting for me to go back through dozens of journals, spiral-bound notebooks and even countless pieces of scrap…

09Sep 2019 by CJ

A bone marrow donor can share their blessings with others

Generosity & Kindness

Today, I received two cotton swabs in the mail. No, it’s not a reminder to clean my ears, but part of my Be The Match kit, which will add me to the thousands of other people who are already on the bone marrow donor registry. From their website: “For the thousands of people diagnosed every year with life-threatening blood cancers like leukemia and lymphoma, a cure exists. Over the past 30 years Be The Match®, operated by the National Marrow Donor Program® (NMDP), has managed the largest and most diverse marrow registry in the world. We work every day to save lives through transplant.” You might be asking why I decided to become a bone marrow donor at 44 years old. It’s simple really. My life is insanely blessed. Even with…