Craig Ruvere

06Aug 2012 by CJ

Keeping your faith alive can be difficult to do

Life & Living

“Every tomorrow has two handles. We can take hold of it by the handle of anxiety, or by the handle of faith.” ~Author Unknown Those closest to me know all too well that I’m often holding on by the handle of anxiety – worrying and many times obsessing about situations I usually have no control over. I want to be the kind of human being that can turn to the handle of faith and feel guarded from the harsh realities of life, but it never works out that way. Maybe my expectations are too high - believing that some divine miracle will swoop down like a superhero and suddenly make all my troubles vaporize before me. I’m sure I’m not alone when I say that many times when we turn…

31Jul 2012 by CJ

Chores should not be about gender but respect

Life & Living

“The Rose Bowl is the only bowl I've ever seen that I didn't have to clean.” ~Erma Bombeck I don’t know many people that enjoy doing housework. It’s one of those things you know needs to get done, but finding the motivation to do it can be a challenge. Like most households, my wife and I both work full time jobs therefore the preconceived notion that housework and laundry are woman’s chores is no longer fair. Over our eleven year marriage, my wife and I have successfully split household chores down the middle. Inside she does the cooking, shopping and laundry and I do the dusting, vacuuming and cleaning of the bathrooms; outside she does all the pruning and gardening, while I cut the grass and pull the weeds. It’s…

30Jul 2012 by CJ

What are your resources?

Life & Living

What do you consider your resources? For many of us we often measure this by the amount of money we have in the bank, which I suppose is not a bad thing. After all we all require a certain amount of wealth in order to pay for things we need for survival. But just how much do we really need? The basics always come to mind…food, clothing, shelter. But beyond that, I can’t help but feel as though we waste too much of our prized “resources” on extravagances we don’t really need but rather want. Everyone has desires for bigger and better things than we currently have. You wouldn’t be human if you didn’t. But when we start depleting our resources in order to get what we “want” rather than…

22Jul 2012 by CJ

While I’d never been fishing before, it was a worth wild experience

Life & Living

Admittedly, I know very little about fishing beyond ordering it on a menu. My father-in-law on the other hand is an avid fisherman with the skills and knowledge to back up such a title. He often regales me with stories of past fishing trips and tidbits of information regarding the sport itself, and while I find it interesting the idea of me actually partaking never really crossed my mind. That was until a few weeks ago when I said to myself, “Craig, how do you know if you don’t like something until you at least give it a try?” And so this weekend I boarded a 100 foot long fishing boat, with no skills to speak of, for a day out on the open water. My father-in-law was kind enough…

17Jul 2012 by CJ

Comedy so distasteful it makes you want to puke

Life & Living

The comedy of Daniel Tosh has been all over the headlines lately. But his comedic talents have nothing to do with the attention he’s getting. According to a blog post which described exactly what happened, a young woman in the audience was singled out, as many comedians do. But Tosh suggested it would be “funny” if she “got raped by, like, five guys, right now.” Sadly, there was laughter after he delivered his punch line – which just goes to show you how little we care about those around us. Comedy of late rely on inappropriate subject matter in order to get a laugh from their audience. Maybe my idea of what’s funny is too childish in nature, for I rarely see the humor in jokes which require sexually explicit…