The holidays are a time for celebration and sadness

Love & Relationships
“There isn’t anyone you couldn’t love once you’ve heard their story.” ― Mary Lou Kownacki If you were flying like a bird, whose graceful wings provide the ability to carry you across thousands of miles of varying landscapes, the world below might look fairly non-descript. Human beings would appear like thousands of tiny ants all running around chaotically from one place to another – all seemingly “the same”. Outward appearances often reveal very little about a persons triumphs and failures. The facades we create when we walk out the front door each and every morning conceal sorrow, insecurity, fear and a host of other feelings and emotions we keep safely guarded from everyone but those we truly know we can rely on. The other day I found myself somewhat humbled…
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It’s people who make a house feel like home

Love & Relationships
“Home is people. Not a place. If you go back there after the people are gone, then all you can see is what is not there any more.”  ― Robin Hobb My wife and I continue to settle in to our new house, and as the boxes clear and the paint cans get stored in the basement, it’s truly beginning to feel like “home” when we walk through the front door. And even though there are still rooms void of furniture and decorative accessories; closets and cabinets in need of some major organization, Hobb’s statement rings clear. It truly is the people that make a house feel like home – not the material possessions we will undoubtedly fill it with. It’s sitting on the couch with that special someone –…
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Having no “presents” at Christmas – a reality we ignore

Life & Living, Love & Relationships
“The test of our progress is not whether we add more to the abundance of those who have much; it is whether we provide enough for those who have too little.” ― Franklin D. Roosevelt I grew up in an average American family comprised of hard working individuals who provided well for everyone in their household.  While I wouldn’t classify any of them as “rich” financially, their lives were never void of the necessities and pleasures many others often classify as “the American dream”. When I was a child during this time of year, I always remember flipping through the holiday catalogs – circling dozens of toys with a thick, black marker and folding the pages so my parents wouldn’t forget to mention them to Santa. And come Christmas morning,…
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Don’t look down on others – instead find reasons to be grateful

Generosity & Kindness, Life & Living, Love & Relationships
“We judge others instantly by their clothes, their cars, their appearance, their race, their education, their social status. The list is endless. What gets me is that most people decide who another person is before they have even spoken to them. What's even worse is that these same people decide who someone else is, and don't even know who they are themselves.” ― Ashly Lorenzana What does it say about a person who continually puts down others who lack the good fortunes that they do? Now I’m not speaking about those who abuse our system or have no idea what financial responsibility truly means. I’m speaking about those who find themselves continually plagued by life’s struggles – those who have a heart of gold and a spirit that radiates hope,…
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Remembering our soldiers during the most wonderful time of the year

Generosity & Kindness, Life & Living, Love & Relationships
“A hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself.” - Joseph Campbell As we all sit in the warmth, comfort and safety of our homes this holiday season, it’s easy to forget about the thousands of soldiers stationed half way across the world – making the ultimate sacrifice to protect the freedoms every one of us takes for granted daily. I thought about this recently as my wife and I were decorating our home for Christmas – the sound of holiday tunes joyfully playing in the background; a comforting glow radiating from the fire place; a steaming cup of hot chocolate with marshmallows warming us from the winter chill. Beyond the simple pleasure holiday decorations seem to bring, we had each other to…
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